REAL HAPPINESS

  1. Give advice only when you are asked to, rather asked questions such as: How do I help you? Any problem? Do you need anything? 2. Avoid getting yourself manipulated or allowing manipulated people to thrive around you 3. Do not allow your relationship with someone to affect your relationship with another or with God  4. Give allegiance to your priorities , don't sacrifice your  family value or career or ministry on the altar of pleasure or men-pleasing 5. Telling the accused or the offender his or her offence first before telling any other party 6. Allowing other people to figure out a solution to their problems rather than trying to be the alpha and omega at all times, you may wear out and life continues 7. Not compromising your conscience or principles for a lover or loved one 8. Knowing what works for you and not jumping into trends or anxiety to solve a problem 9. Avoid putting yourself in a tempting situation because you want to prove a point 10. Give a U-turn whe...

 1. Being with Friends or relationship you never learnt anything good  from be  it hard skills, soft skills, academics, food e.t.ce 2. Being with friends you can't trust their words, they are very unpredictable, you can't predict their next action, you might be standing on a time bomb 3.When the friendship or relationship is like business transaction, they can't do anything for you without making gain. 4. When there is an atmosphere of fear, when you can't be vulnerable with them even in spoken English, you have to always compose yourself around them 5. Being with people who don't want to make amends, they will drag you into their mess.     Don't loose your relationship with God because of man, remember the saying, show me your friends and I will tell you whom you are. Choose wisely!