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How not to over-step the boundaries in relationships

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  1. Give advice only when you are asked to, rather asked questions such as: How do I help you? Any problem? Do you need anything? 2. Avoid getting yourself manipulated or allowing manipulated people to thrive around you 3. Do not allow your relationship with someone to affect your relationship with another or with God  4. Give allegiance to your priorities , don't sacrifice your  family value or career or ministry on the altar of pleasure or men-pleasing 5. Telling the accused or the offender his or her offence first before telling any other party 6. Allowing other people to figure out a solution to their problems rather than trying to be the alpha and omega at all times, you may wear out and life continues 7. Not compromising your conscience or principles for a lover or loved one 8. Knowing what works for you and not jumping into trends or anxiety to solve a problem 9. Avoid putting yourself in a tempting situation because you want to prove a point 10. Give a U-turn whe...
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Signs a relationship is toxic

 1. Being with Friends or relationship you never learnt anything good  from be  it hard skills, soft skills, academics, food e.t.ce 2. Being with friends you can't trust their words, they are very unpredictable, you can't predict their next action, you might be standing on a time bomb 3.When the friendship or relationship is like business transaction, they can't do anything for you without making gain. 4. When there is an atmosphere of fear, when you can't be vulnerable with them even in spoken English, you have to always compose yourself around them 5. Being with people who don't want to make amends, they will drag you into their mess.     Don't loose your relationship with God because of man, remember the saying, show me your friends and I will tell you whom you are. Choose wisely!
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It is not over yet

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       The year is fast coming to an end and so we think my expectations are over..   No, a mile begins with a step and the winner may emerge just at the last minute. You may also need to relax and restrategise, sometimes what hampers productivity is fear and anxiety... You know the saying, more haste, less speed!      Do not give up, keep pushing!
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What do with a Violent Partner

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     Nobody enjoys violence and most Sane people would want to run away from such but when we have loved ones who are violent what do we do? . Identify the cause of the violence: Identify if the person is under the influence of drugs, alcohol or emotional     Knowing the cause will help to solve the problem . Avoid being close when the violent partner is angry: This is to ensure that you are safe and not sorry   When the object for violence cannot be reached, the violence reduces or is channeled to the wrong source  Lastly Run and not look back( For intending spouse) Run for safety for he who runs away lives to fight another day.. # Realehappinessgrantinghappiness #realehappiness.blogspot.com
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What to do with our heart

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People will always say listen to your heart,      You have the sole resonsibility of making yourself happy. But I say make sure your heart agrees with your conscience.    For what others do to you is their karma and how you respond is your own karma, As you step out today, listen to your conscience not just your heart.  (Ire ooo) !
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What to do to avoid heartbreaks

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  It can be painful to be hurt by someone you once trusted,  some can be so hurt that they commit suicide. In reference to the trending story of a lady that was dissapointed at her intending spouse, there is a need to protect our heart.   Below are helpful things you can do: . Start a relationship on a strong Friendship: This will provide a neutral ground to know your intending partner deeply without pretence .Be a friend to his/her friends: Some things that are hidden to you may be revealed by his/her friends if you are friendly enough . Listen to your head over your heart: Do not allow your feelings to becloud the little consistent signs such as Startling posture when you come in sight, secluded calls and constant impromptu meetings .Prayers: There is nobody that knows a person more than the creator.Pray for exposure
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WELCOME ADDRESS

 Welcome! Welcome!! Welcome!!! It's with utmost joy I welcome you to this blog page where there will be discussions and great motivational talks. Here, we will be engaging ourselves on relationship talks, food matters and emotional recovery tips. Daily, we feed ourselves with varieties, we are concerned with your mind, stomach and heart satisfactions. You can always be updated with top-notch skills and you can contribute base on your own level of reasoning; all to learn and grow a better community. Read, promote and explore the posts herein on this page with great and positive minds. Constructive criticisms are welcome. I am your host. Njoegbu Uchechi Happiness.
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